It is not just what is happening to me!
I'm sure you've asked yourself at some point: Why is this happening to me, if I didn't do anything to that person?
Why aren't things going my way? Why can't I get out of these problems? And many more situations you don't understand.
Our wise men tell us "There is no suffering without transgression"
And the truth is that nothing that happens to us, both the good and the apparently bad, we should not attribute it to other people or situations, we should not look for excuses or blame!
Well, everything is directed by the Creator.
"No one is harmed without the consent of the Creator"
Do you remember when a man from the house of Saul, named Shimi son of Gera, came to David HaMelech (King David) and began to curse him, throwing stones at him and saying:
"Go away, bloodthirsty and impious man!" He threatened him with harsh rebukes...
Then one of King David's servants wanted to tear off his head, but King David stopped him and said to him "Leave him alone, for the Lord has told him to curse me. Perhaps the Lord will see the tear from my eye and return good to me in exchange for his curse on this day."
(2 Samuel 16:5)
So today we must remember that everything is directed by Hashem and that nothing is a coincidence, and when we go through difficult situations it is best that we do a cheshbon Nefesh (a soul count) or rather a self-analysis, asking the Eternal to show us what error or fault we have committed so that we can repent and make a rectification.
Many times we think we are very good, but the reality is different, "it's just that we don't know each other well"
In the coming days, we will discuss some very serious offenses and transgressions that, apparently, are not serious and that seriously affect our lives, such as:
-"Lashon Hara" (Gossip or Slander)
-"Akarat haTov" (Not recognizing the good that we have received from others, in short "being ungrateful")
For the wise say that this is serious: whoever does not recognize and appreciate the favor of his neighbor ends up ignoring the favors of the Creator...
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