"My husband gets angry when I speak"

Is it true that a woman's nature is to speak?

If you woman, it bothers you that they do not listen to you, or if you as a man despair that your wife talks a lot about a topic, then you have to read this:

Let's see, as you know ... Women by nature talk more than men.

We not only see this in the raw material from which we were created, but we also know that when Hashem lowered speech to the world, he lowered it divided into 10 parts.

Nine of them he gave to the women and the rest he gave to the men of which the women took half from them! Imagine, the difference is huge!

There is something beautiful that reaffirms the need for women to speak (which we must know how to control):

Why did Hashem first create Adam and from him created Java? Was it not more logical that he did it according to natural laws and that Adam came out of the woman? As happens in childbirth, (it is the woman who brings life to the world).

Hashem was merciful to women and thought ... "How am I going to bring Java into the world alone? Who is he going to talk to while I create Adam? "
Sounds funny, but how real is it! Hashem knew the need for women to communicate, and that is why he was pious and in order not to make Java go through that moment of loneliness and not having anyone to talk to, he created her after Adam.

This difference is It is important for both women and men to know about it so that there are no problems in our marriage for this reason.

Women must understand that it is not for evil that our husbands do not tell us in detail everything, that it is not for evil that we do not receive from them all the information we expect.
And men have to understand us when we talk to them or we unburden ourselves why we extend ourselves so much. But just as we must understand each other, we also have to do our part and also give in to make our partner feel good.

How?
Women have to try to understand when enough was enough and not always extend ourselves sooooo much as we want. Sometimes it is not necessary to tell even the smallest detail.
And men must also be patient and listen, and not only that but do their part and try to talk more with their wives!
When your wife asks you "How did she do?" We would like to hear something more than a "Good"

I'm sure that by understanding this and being both sides we will be able to avoid many fights and we will be able to live more in harmony in our home.

(From Linda Tawil)

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