Honor and appreciate your husband because it is a gift from the creator!
"You must be happy with your husband/wife, and not be ungrateful to the Eternal Blessed Be He"
The nature of a person is that as they behave towards themselves, so they behave towards others.
Even more so with a woman, the face you show her, she will show you the same face. If you appreciate and respect her, she will help you in all your affairs.
Show your husband/wife a happy face, even when you are going through difficult times and problems, do not take out your anger and annoyance on your partner.
On the contrary, always show her a happy face, because if you understand and appreciate her, she will understand and appreciate you in the same way.
In this way they will live happily and united, the most important thing is joy and mutual understanding, this will help them.
You should know that no one likes to be criticized, no one likes to be told that they don't know..., that they can't..., why did you do that..., why did you go..., etc...
Nobody likes criticism, especially a woman.
Have compassion for your spouse, don't criticize them even if they made a mistake, "don't inflate them," try not to give them value.
Instead, strengthen her and tell her: It's nothing serious... don't worry... next time everything will be fine! You certainly didn't do it on purpose.
It is very difficult for women to accept criticism and sermons, and because of this, fights arise at home.
Our sages said:
"A wife is like one's own body" (Tractate Berachot 24a)
Just as you don't like to be criticized and lectured, don't do it yourself either. Better yet, show your husband/wife
appreciation and love! And this way you'll never have fights or arguments, you'll only have peace and joy.
Marital peace (Shalom Bait) is a "life project" and is the true test of being human.
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