Honor and appreciate your spouse as it is a Gift from the Creator!
"You must be happy with your spouse, and not be ungrateful to the Eternal Blessed Be He"
The nature of the person is that just as they behave with her, in such a way, so she conducts herself with others.
Even more so, a woman, the face that you show her, she will show you herself, if you appreciate her and respect her, she will help you in all your affairs.
Show your spouse a happy face, even though you are going through difficult times and problems, do not vent your anger and annoyance on your partner.
On the contrary, always show her a happy face, because if you understand and appreciate her, likewise, she will understand and appreciate you.
In this way they will live happy and united, the main thing is joy and mutual understanding, this will help them.
You should know that no one likes to be criticized, no one likes to be told that they don't know ..., that they can't ... why did you do this ... why did you go ... , etc ...
No one likes criticism, least of all a woman.
Have compassion on your spouse, don't criticize her even if he made a mistake, "don't inflate it", try not to give him value.
Rather, strengthen her and tell her: That it is nothing serious ..., do not worry ..., next time everything will be fine! you sure didn't do it on purpose.
It is very difficult for women to accept criticism and sermons and because of this, fights arise at home.
Our sages said:
"A wife is like one's body" (Treaty of Berajot 24a)
Just as you do not like to be criticized and lectured, neither do you, better than that, show your spouse
appreciation and love! And in this way they will never have fights or arguments, they will only have peace and joy.
Marital peace (Shalom Bait) is all "a life project" and is the true test of the human being.
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